Color Me Stretching.

It is hard to love when you feel unloved. It is hard to show affection when you feel unnoticed. It is hard to share your thoughts when you feel that you are on the outside of someone else's. But this is where marriage gets beautiful. It is in the ugly parts. It is in the seemingly impossible times. It is when change seems like it will never come. And I am still in the learning part but I am determined to be the wife God has called me to be. I am determined to love when love is the last thing I feel. I am determined to forgive when I feel betrayed. I am determined to show affection when I feel like I am in a one sided relationship. Because it is easy to think our problems are the whole world. It is easy to think our thoughts are the most important and that our fears are center focus. But in reality----they aren't. What if I took the time to dive into his head and embrace his fears and feel his hurts? I think my problems would seem so small.